Going to have lunch today with Mom and her caretaker. I was looking around for a card for him; I usually have some generic cards around for emergencies. I found a pile of cards I’d purchased a long time ago and hadn’t looked at since. There were birthday cards and Father’s Day cards for my Dad and cards for my Mom-in-law. It was unexpectedly painful to see them and know that I won’t be able to give them to them.